Conversations for Transformation, are blog publications by Meta-Life Coaching (Pty) Ltd, and focus on helping individuals navigate transitions, finding direction and purpose in life, Transformative Leadership
Development, and the Integration of Spiritual Principles in Training for Human Empowerment, and Social Transformation.
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Oct 2023. There are so many Self-help blogs or personal growth blogs available that you may get overwhelmed by information overload. That’s why Conversations for Transformation are so important as it will help you find your way through the fog of useless information on the blog jungle, and offer you a solutions and options that will actually bring about change, instead of only making you feel good for the day. All the things we actually look for in self-help books, workshops or the teachings of guru’s, is actually not about doing something to get something, but is rather about releasing the blocks that prevent you from experiencing the presence of peace within, and living that peace as an expressed manifestation of your dreams. Conversations for transformations is all about this process. Although some self-help guides do list a few easy steps that can be followed, rarely are they relevant to the readers specific life context. Mentorship is probably the most important element that involve encouragement and accountability. Without a trusted companion in whom to confide, reflect and provide the necessary disciplining, most people will drop-out and seek a reason not to bring about the changes needed for a transformative, life-enriching experience. In this Blogpost, I discuss the most impactful event, or experience that improved people’s lives, as well as what the benefits is to enlisting a mentor for your journey. Read more here: https://open.substack.com/pub/metalifecoach/p/what-to-do-if-you-want-to-improve?
April 2022. A bit of motivation when you struggle to venture out as Entrepreneur, or Social Activist, and need guidance? How do we remain conscious when life gets bogged down by economic, emotional and relational challenges? When life gets bogged down by economic, emotional and relational challenges, most people feel they need to be, or are punished for not being good enough. But, how will you discover your own potential if you only wait for feedback from others and opportunities that are given to you? The linked articles speak about breaking down barriers and give tips on preventing seeming limitations from becoming a stumbling stone. You can be who you want to be and venture out as future leader that can change the world. Meta-Life Coaching assist people to remain conscious when life gets bogged down by economic, emotional and relational challenges? We all need a bit of motivation when struggling to be present and focused on our offering and service to the world, and sometime we need guidance, and our Transformational Coaching / Counseling services provide just that. Interested? Read more here: https://metalifecoach.substack.com/p/here-is-the-secrets-that-will-unlock.
What is wrong, and what is
right with the World?
March 2022. When life gets bogged down by economic, emotional and relational challenges, most people feel they need to be, or are punished for not being good enough. But, how will you discover your own potential if you only wait for feedback from others and opportunities that are given to you? Here is the fact, in a competitive environment where people live from the point-of-view that lack exists and only the best are allowed to succeed, you have already failed. When I look at the most resourceful, resilient, and influential people on earth, it is those who have lost everything, maybe some even a limb, or physical ability, and others their homes, family and had to flee war and calamity to embrace a new start somewhere else. What amazes me is that they are not at “War with the World”, but simply merged with their experience and allowed it to guide them into newness, almost as if born again. (Read more about breaking this pattern here, and changing your world; https://metalifecoach.substack.com/p/how-to-stop-being-at-war-with-the).
What have you discovered about yourself during difficult times?
Sept 2021. Majority of people today will only consider things like self-improvement and education, if there are prospects of financial gain, and the next best job, but what if there are no guarantees to achieve these ideals. How much did it change your life, and what improvement can be detected
in your personal understanding of self, your significance in the world,
and the way you purposefully interact with life? Maybe, through all the turmoil, you have realized that the way we live and function creates unnecessary focus on self-gain and comfort, instead of upskilling and raising the standard of joyful living. After the dust settles, what is important, however, is who you decide to be. What have you discovered about yourself, about life, and the way you want to live in the future? Time to reflect, isn't it. As we journey through life, at stages it is important to get advice, and find guidance to deal with life's challenges. "What you do today can improve your tomorrows" ~ Ralph Marston. Take action now, contact me now for a strategic session and find the benefit that Transformational Coaching provides for your future.
Man should not ask what meaning life can provide for you, but rather that we need to recognize that it is life asking you what you really want? When tragedy, trauma, challenges and a pandemic comes knocking on your door, how will you answer the call? Read more at: https://metalifecoach.substack.com/p/what-did-you-discover-during-difficult.
The MLC Incubation model of Education acts as catalyst for transformation. As an extension of our Career and Academic Coaching services, we facilitate learner centred, interest based, with a self-study research focused curriculum that is multi-disciplinary, and helps the hard-working student to obtain qualifications in shorter periods of time, at more affordable rates.
A better future & Unique System of Education.
The Fourth Industrial Revolution is here, and it is changing everything. Education prepares people for the future of work, however, unemployment stats and economic turmoil threatens careers, in an age where Artificial Intelligence takes over. With big companies unable to provide jobs, prejudice and discrimination in society, poverty, and lack of affordable and relevant education - we are left with disempowered adults that are unable to cope with the future world of work. The Meta-Life Incubation is an educational opportunity that supports a new paradigm aligned with needed skills to do the job, never mind if they get a Colonized Government accredited stamp on it or not. We provide an alternative self-directed educational process that support entrepreneurial careers and focus on people’s unique interests, and talents, with flexible subjects and qualifications. Want to know more, visit: https://metalifecoach.substack.com/p/catch-the-wave-a-new-model-of-education. .
How do we find meaning in life?
The Meaning of Life, closely relates to an inner awareness of who you are, your expressed Identity, sense of belonging, and value contribution you make to life. We can also look at meaning by asking how you create your reality. And it starts with the kind of stimulus influencing your awareness of whom, or what you think you are? In terms of personal growth, this framework defines your reality. That meaning, with whatever you associate, or dissociate from, creates stories in the mind commonly referred to as thoughts. But negative thought forms determine the preoccupation of your attention, and gives rise to harmful feelings, and a self-destructive mind-set. When we get lost in thought, the negative images that form in the mind reflect our self-created interpretation of experiences in life. In our online discussion (see link), we will reason with thoughts, observe the futility of the mind, and give pointers on how you can overthrow the inner turmoil to find peace of mind, and live the truth of who you are in a meaningful way.
How do we find meaning in life, with a mind-cluttered by negativity?
Do you want to have the ability to rewrite your own destiny?
January 2021. Will the stories you tell yourself determine your future? You can read more on how you can create a better future here: https://metalifecoach.substack.com/p/will-the-stories-you-tell-yourself
Strategies for a better future: Transforming Inter-Generational
Conflict.
February 2021. Are our youth really the new heroes of the future? The question is, how do changemakers deal with the challenges and resolve accumulated stress that affects their lives. Read more at; https://metalifecoach.substack.com/p/are-our-youth-really-the-new-heroes.
How can I resolve uncertainty during a pandemic, find purpose, and improve the quality of my life? Hope for a better future is not a wish, nor just a desire for things to be different. It is a course of action, combining mind and heart. Something needs to happen! In the Article you will find specific steps you can take that will open possibilities for a better future.
What works best - New Year’s resolutions, or re-defining your view on life?
January 2021. There is
more to Life than a Pandemic – Time to rethink the way we look at it! Full post available
at: https://metalifecoach.substack.com/p/time-to-rethink-the-way-we-look-at
OSHO once said, “You will find meaning in life only if you
create it. It is a poetry to be composed. It is a song to be sung. It is a
dance to be danced”. It is easy to get
overwhelmed by uncertainty and stress during difficult times, and the daily
threat of our inability to survive the economic curve, are just surface issues
of much more that’s influencing our values and perspectives on life. The
experience of living in heightened chaos is highly undesirable and has a
negative effect on your mental and physical health, it deteriorates the quality
of relationships with the people you live and work with, and leaves you feeling
disconnected with the greater source of life. But the scenario may change, and
in this brief discussion, we hope you may be encouraged to move beyond
conversations revolving around chaos and find the inspiration and steps needed
to make changes for a wholesome future.
The one thing in life, however, that never changes is change – it happens whether we like it or not. In reality, we all experience a struggle between accepting change and resisting it, trying to make things different and yet feeling an anxious need to keep things the same. This struggle is what makes personal transformation so difficult and when economic uncertainty threatens our survival, and to do something about it. But it has to start some place, and some time. You can embrace your evolving future by empowering and expanding your capacity to be whatever you chose to be, do, or have. Imagine, really knowing what you want, how to go about getting there, and the confidence to do it. Please link to the full article, or our newsletter to find how you can make that transition.
I chose to say yes to life, to every challenge it presents, pain, and joy. I said yes to myself, realizing that it is only in the yearning to give expression of your inner passions and longings that your gift comes alive. You’ve got a new story to write, and it looks nothing like your past! What turned my life inside-out, was the willingness to be authentic and follow my dreams – and it is not too difficult when you have quality guidance and open-minded mentors, and hopefully that is what I can offer to you. Transformations-Coaching helps you to focus on what you want rather than what you don’t want. One of the key questions faced by many are whether they are happy with who, where, and what you are? So, let’s help you to realize and bring about lasting change, and prioritize what is important for you as well.Looking forward to engage with you soon. Martin.
Jan / Feb 2017. Full Article available at http://eepurl.com/czq2nf
The search for meaning in life is a process of self-improvement.
For some, the beginning of the year moves rapidly into the daily and monthly routine of meeting sales targets, organizing meetings, and conducting business as usual. But for others, the New Year symbolized the possibility of new beginnings, or an improvement over what was. What if our journey on Earth is a unique opportunity of growth and development? Here is an opportunity for you ... you CAN live your dream. Meta-Life Institute has the unique offering that can guide and empower the journey to be fully engaged with every aspects of our beings, whether to integrate values and spiritual aspirations with business goals and objectives, or developing the capabilities to fulfill your aspirations. The Coaching and mentoring services, and educational courses offered is designed to support every individual on their path of transformation and growth. Dreaming, or doing, is a choice that will mean the difference between failure, and success. And you can make a difference by joining us on Facebook in #Conversations_for_Transformation.
June 2016. Full Article available at http://metalifecoach.tumbler.com/post.
Life never ceases to have a meaning, under any conditions, even tragic and negative aspects of life points to a purposeful path, so look for meaning therein. Through the attitude adopted towards any predicament, whether pain, death and guilt, or disaster, instead of succumbing to passive acceptance - you can turn it into a human achievement, not despair but triumph. (Victor Frankl).
A Fragmented Society reflects the inner lives of its Leaders as its primary sources of knowledge and change initiatives. Social Transformation involve a process of dialogue, and action that results in substantial shifts in social norms, but is characterised by the legitimacy of discordant voices, particularly of those most marginalised in society. Those who stand for progressive social change believes that our society needs transformation; however, this transition demands serious introspection on the fundamental drivers that may limit, or empower human endeavour. The dilemma arises when Leaders, based on their own role models, do not propose new ideologies, or represent a unique Identity that can provide constructive direction, unanimity, and interconnectedness across borders to provide meaning and stability for the new generation. Part of the problem may be that we know very little about what constitutes good leaders, or how to develop the capacity that would address the prevailing negative forces that reinforce a disjointed society. Or must there first be another cataclysmic event that will unite people for a common cause, or a Vision for Transformation that can provide new foundations for a united humanity? Read more about the need for Social Transformation, and what you can do about the dilemma we face at: Leadership Dilemma.
May 2016. Full Article available at http://metalifecoach.tumbler.com/post.
“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.” (Leo Tolstoy).
How do we
create a society that is better enabled to deal with the challenges we face
today? While reformation movements have come and gone, current systems
are still not fit for purpose to create and sustain a ‘New Earth’ global
community. What is needed is a new kind of thinking about the role of
transformative, or developmental leadership, especially the role of education,
and the position of social and business leaders therein. Training interventions
that focus on Leadership and Entrepreneurial development therefore need to
bridge this gap, and retain talent transfer that serves the needs experienced
in the work place. The future role of collaboration in learning and the
position of various business leaders therein, are key dynamics often debated
among Millennials. Young people long for transformation in their communities
and the new generation of leaders are challenging systems thinking, and are
calling for mentors with an out-of-the box business and educational approach to
guide and support them.
Transformative Coaching, illuminates the processes of
business leadership to impact change in society, which can translate into
practical interventions that promote this kind of support needed. Several ways
to stimulate a transformative learning experience is identified and included in
the Entrepreneurial Leadership
Incubation process that utilises group projects and interactive dialogue
between various generations to stimulate critical reflection, innovation, and
growth. This approach to leadership development is dynamic and contributes to
the effective development of leadership skills that can be transferred to
empower the next generation. The complexities entailed, also require a new kind
of change agent who has developed the personal
capacities required for the complex demands of effective leadership to
initiate change. This kind of approach to education, under guidance of an incubation mentor, aims to cultivate four specific capacities indicative of transformative Leadership. Read more about these qualities embeded in the Leadership Development process presented by the Meta-Life Institute. The full article is available at this link.
Read more…
How to Create Harmony
and Transform Society. (Article Click here).
Vision for a New Earth Spiritual Community. (Article Click here).
Announcements.
Urgent appeal: There is continual need of business leaders, educators, and change agents, to be part of this kind of solution. The in-house short-courses and Academic Mentoring offered by Meta-Life Coaching in Pinetown (KZN, South Africa), is an extension of our Transformational Life-Coaching services offered, and part of the Change Agent Incubation programme presented. Should you be interested to know more, whether participating as Mentor, Student or Sponsor, please inquire at: info@metalifecoaching.co.za.
April 2016. Full Article available at http://metalifecoach.tumbler.com/post.
Don’t you get it, what do I care about a world that is full of anger and
violence, corruption and lies, poverty and drought, abuse and political
scandals, and oh yes, earthquakes and cancer! As long as I earn enough money to
pay my bills, eat enough, have something to wear, and can entertain myself
safely at home in front of the television with the latest soapie, why should I
care? Is it not enough that we talk about it at work and read the newspapers to
make us aware? Why should I do more?
Conversations for Social Transformation,
is an initiative of the Meta-Life Institute that recently held another public
talk to promote public awareness of possible solutions for the problems
experienced in our communities. During the meeting held in Pinetown (KZN, South
Africa), interested parties participating in the conversation raised several
questions concerning the causes of conflict, and the process involved to
establish peace and harmony in society. In this regard, steps to initiate
Social Development were discussed that would lead to the needed transformation
in our communities, and to foster wholesome conditions for people to live in
harmony and prosper. Disturbing the results as it may seem, the conversation
also turned to the reasons why there is no real progress. The processes of
transformation are indeed complex. To read more about the challenges
confronting the world today and possible solutions, please read the full
article here.
Instead of the usual legalistic approach of do’s and don’ts, these kind of interactions propose new approach towards life. The NEW EARTH spiritual principles promoted through these Conversations for Transformation, can be followed by any person desiring to see a change in the world. Positive change starts with conscious and mindful living. When we are preoccupied with making a difference, we will be willing to stand for the principles you want to live today that will create a better future for all tomorrow. It is often said: Be the Change you want to see in the World”. Social development and growth thrive when these factors are present.
Visions of Transformation.
How
do we create a better world to live in? How do I deal with the frustrations of
life? A very relevant topic and important principles that can be applied
personally and in your work environment. Social or Personal Transformation, it
all boils down to Consciousness. At the Meta-Life Institute, our research
focuses on the application of Transformative Learning Strategies that promote
Integrative Spiritual Experiences and Social Development. Our intention is to
assist a new generation of problem solvers to become conscious entrepreneurial
leaders that want to make a difference to their communities. We have a vision
for the transformation of social consciousness?
You can start by joining us on the Facebook group #Conversations_for_Transformation.